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Long distance

The cutest link to send long distance

Make your long distance note

Long distance runs on the small stuff: the good-morning texts, the memes, the calls that go too late. This is the small stuff, upgraded. One link that holds your photos, your reasons, a real letter, and a virtual date you plan together, instead of another 'wish you were here'.

It's built for the days the distance gets loud: anniversaries you can't spend together, birthdays in different time zones, or a random Wednesday when you want to remind them this is worth it.

The date planner is the secret weapon. Set the options to things you can actually do apart (movie night on a call, same takeout in two cities, an online game date) and let them pick. Their choices land on your dashboard, and suddenly Friday has a plan.

What a long distance love link looks like inside

5 years and I'd still pick you

Reasons it's them

  • The way you still surprise me
  • How you remember everything I told you about my family
  • Your morning hair (don't fight it)
Every year I think I can't love you more than I already do.

These are the starting defaults. Every word is yours to rewrite.

What to write when you're far apart

Distance gives you one advantage: words carry more weight when they can't be replaced by a hug. Three letters to start from:

For the long distance anniversary

Happy anniversary, my favorite far-away person. Loving you across this distance is the hardest easy thing I've ever done. Hard because I can't fall asleep next to you tonight. Easy because there was never a version of this where I'd choose anything else. The photos in here are my proof we're real, and the date at the end is ours to plan: same movie, same hour, two couches. Soon, one.

For the random hard day

The distance got loud today, so I'm doing something about it. Here are the photos I look at on the train. Here are the reasons you're worth every weird-hour phone call. Here is me telling you, in writing, that this is not the forever shape of us, just the current one. We're a when, not an if. Now open the next page and pick what we're watching Friday.

For the countdown

Twenty-three days. I keep doing the math like it'll change. Until then, this link is the closest I can get to showing up at your door: us at our best, the reasons I'd cross any number of time zones for you, and a plan for the first night you're back. I already know what I'm cooking. You just bring you. Love you. Go chase the No button, I made it extra fast.

How it works across time zones

  1. 1

    Pick a theme and make it yours

    The anniversary gold works beautifully for long distance, and every starter line is editable.

  2. 2

    Fill the memory lane

    The photos that live on your lock screen, up to 8 of them, with captions. Then write the letter you'd say if the call quality were better.

  3. 3

    Make the date planner long-distance-proof

    Swap the default options for things you can do apart together: a synced movie, the same recipe cooked on camera, an online game night.

  4. 4

    Publish and send

    They open it whenever their time zone allows. You get an email the moment they do, and their date picks show up on your dashboard ready for scheduling.

Make your long distance note

Free. About 5 minutes. No app to install.

or peek at the Anniversary example it starts from

Long distance link questions, answered

What are good long distance anniversary ideas?+

The ones that create a shared moment, not just a delivery. A link with your photos and a letter gives them something to open and feel; the built-in date planner turns it into an actual synced plan: same movie, same dinner, two cities.

What are virtual date ideas that don't feel like another video call?+

Give the call a script: watch the same movie in sync, cook the same recipe, run an online game night, or order each other's dinner. Set those as the date-planner options and let them pick. Choosing is half the fun.

What cute links can I send my long distance boyfriend or girlfriend?+

This one is built for it: a memory lane of your photos, your reasons, a letter that types itself out, and a question with a runaway No button. It's free and they don't need an app, which matters when you're on different continents.

Do time zones mess it up?+

No. You publish when it's ready and they open it whenever their day allows. You get an email the moment they do, which is its own little long-distance thrill.

Is it free?+

Yes. Free to make, free to open, no account for them. Long distance is expensive enough.

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